Attended a friend’s grandfather’s wake this evening. I can see how much she cares and loves him. I felt a sharp ache in my heart when she shared her moments with him when he was around. She described how he enjoyed playing Nintendo, how he’ll record korean and taiwan drama for his wife and how he’d enjoyed his final days by eating things he want, drinking the soda he likes and continue to enjoy every minute of being alive.

In my mind, I tried to picture my Grandma, Grandpa, my parents and my love ones. I could hardly recall such details and happy moments I have with them. Especially my Grandma and Grandpa. I grew up living with them till I was in Primary 4. Returned back to stay with my parents since Primary 5 since I was old enough to take care of myself when my parents were at work.

I love my Grandma and Grandpa very much. They are the ones who took care of me since birth and they provided me home, love and many happy times during my fond childhood. They would buy my favorite food for me (hence the chubby me) and they would bring me to the arcades during weekends. They pampered me with toys, books and almost everything I wanted. I am their eldest grandchild so I receive lots of love from them.

I’m thankful that both of them are still around. But due to a complex history, my grandpa is not living with grandma now. The last time I saw him was 3 years ago. And all I could do was ask grandma if he’s ok. No one from my family could see him. He’s living with his protective and selfish family. I don’t know the truth behind this complex relationship, but I just feel very upset that we’re not allowed to visit him. He was very ill when we last saw him, and have been hearing that his condition has improved and deteriorate over the past years. I wish I could visit him, I hope he’ll still remember and recognize his lovely grandchildren if we get to see him again.

I want to be able to have more fond and happy memories with my love ones. I want to be able to tell a beautiful life story of my love ones when they’re no longer around. I want to be able to share my beautiful memories with my love ones in the future. I want to treasure them when they’re still around. I want to be able to spend more time with them when I still can.

I want to tell their life story here in my blog, to keep a record of them for me, for my children, for my family and my love ones. I want to be able to remember all these memories when I grow old. I want to start compiling their story here and keep them alive here… forever…

(Photo taken at Bro’s 21st Birthday few years back.)

I know many of you can’t wait for the photos! So here are some of them for you…

Junwei’s 21st Birthday Party
at Grandeur8 Function Room 

Happy 21st Birthday Girl!

Stay pretty always!

The day started bright and early as we all gathered at Grandma’s place. And as usual, we just couldn’t stop taking photos! Lots and lots! Here are some of them…

This one I love best!
(It’s so funny!)

Everyone say “Huat ah!”

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If you’ve friends’ birthday coming, bring them to Fish&Co! This is why…

Happy birthday Abang!

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Sorry, I just had to do that! Caused I’d spent the last 45 mins typing and inserting photos and my stupid mouse just had to go the wrong way and clicked on the BACK arrow!! Waaaa!!! So now… restarting…

WARNING! This post is image instensive! Happy scrolling!

With jw’s school holiday coming to an end, ahxin’s working life coming soon and me hopefully returning back to work soon, we decided to go out for some fun. We had planned for this day 2 weeks ago and we had been waiting eagerly for today to come (31 July). It was a super fun and tiring day. Lots of photos were taken and here are the 10% of them… will talk about the with the photos… (cos photos tell a thousand words… *doh*)

Our plan was to head to Sentosa to check out their latest attractions and also to go walk around since we had not been there for a long long time. But with the recent crazy weather, we were trying to come up with Plan B in case it starts to rain. And plan B, of cos was to go shopping… but in the end, we managed to accomplish both plans! Ha!

So here’s what happened today…

We started off at Vivocity for lunch at 12pm.
Modesto’s having 1-for-1 promo for UOB cardmembers…
We ordered 2 items… (1-4-1 mah!)

this was yummy! We love mushrooms!!

It was crazy at the dinner just now. Our table of 9 made the most noise throughout the night. Our laughter filled the entire place! We didn’t really bother about what others might comment, but we’re happily enjoying ourselves at the corner of the resturant.

It was a good gathering for my family and relatives. Due to all our busy schdules, catching up seems to be so so far fetch. Only at dinner like this brings us together and gives us time to catch up and laugh together. I hope the next gathering, abang wil be able to join us too.

Some snaps of the night…